Wednesday, April 22, 2009

My Mother...

My mom and I are still on weird terms from our fall out last week. I just decided to forgive and forget what she said and called her a few times. She just acts distant and what she does say to me is rude and ridiculous. Here are some examples.

Me: Christopher is starting a new anxiety medicine. He has been freaking out and having panic attacks a lot lately. He's really stressed I guess
Mom: Probably because he's trying too hard to get pregnant.
Me: OR He's stressed about our dogs, getting our house fixed, me being sick...

Me: OMG I FOUND MY CAMERA!!!!!!!! (she bought me this camera as an early birthday present in December and I lost it in January, which she was obviously upset about)
Mom: Did you find my DVD player?
Me: Ummm No I know where that is...

Me: Can I borrow your tent?
Mom: Why can't you use your other one?
Me: Well it's a pain to put up. I like yours cause it pops up like my broken one did
Mom: Well are you going to break it too?
Me: Umm noo.... I won't leave it out in the wind to dry...

It doesn't sound like much, but those are the 3 conversations we have had in a week, and that is pretty much as far as they have gone. I called her back after one convo to ask something, and she sounded like she had been crying, and I asked what was wrong and she said nothing. So IDK. I've tried. I kinda miss her... She has off today and she always calls me when she's off to see what I'm doing. Nothing. Christopher said that it will get better soon and get back to normal. I sure hope so. How am I going to tell her I'm pregnant if I get pregnant this cycle or ever if she doesn't even want to talk to me? I guess I will just go on with life and she will eventually come around? I don't know why SHE is mad at ME?! I didn't do anything! It is all very frustrating...

11 people that love me told me so:

Celia said...

Mmmm, obviously I don't know your Mom but maybe something is just up with her?

You never know.

I have to say I love the blinkie pinned to the side of your page that says My idea of foreplay is a positive OPK.

alicia said...

ahh sorry things are still off with your mom! I am sure they will sort themselves out soon. hugs

~Jess said...

I'm sure with time it will get better...from your conversations it looks like everything you say she's shutting you down...hopefully it get's better soon.


~*~Bodhi~*~ said...

Ahhh Mothers, they're strange things sometimes!

If it was me I'd call her on it and ask her what was up, what was with the attitude and what her problem was? What had I done to tick her off?


Thats just me, I have a habit of being upfront about stuff and not pulling any punches so to speak, if you've got a problem with me - then I want to know about it!

I truly hope you get it sorted with her hon!


Misty said...

I hope that your mom comes around. It is hard when family causes problems instead of being there to support you.

Nina said...

I say let her call you from now on. She'll eventually get over it, and hopefully apologize. If she doesn't, then she'll miss out. On everything.

Heather said...

Sorry you have to go thru this Katie!

Kristin said...

I'm sorry things are on such odd terms with your mom. I hope it improves soon.


Mr. Shelby said...

Sounds very similar to Shelby and her mom. I'll never quite understand it, but I know to keep my mouth shut and listen to shelby vent :)

-Mr. Shelby (from iclw)

A Mom in Jacksonville, FL said...

Oh my! Hope things clear up with your Mom soon...and that she lets you borrow the tent. :)


The Patterson's said...

So sorry you're having a rocky time with your mom. Treatments put so much stress on us...hope it will get better soon!


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