Monday, September 21, 2009

Getting Better

Things are better with me and hubster. We still didn't have the shower because like I said, he spent all the money. I was really really disappointed. I really wanted that shower, but oh well I guess. I think he finally realized how upset I was when I got drastic and told him how I really felt and how I feel every time he lies to me (always about money and drinking FTR) and how he's been a jerk with his friend around. He has been a lot more attentive. Let's see how long this lasts... I think I woke him up when I said I didn't want to bring a baby into his world of lying and money issues he causes. When I said I didn't want his baby (of course I WANT THIS BABY. But if I wasn't pregnant now, I probably would put it on hold) he got really really upset and totally changed his tune. Hopefully not that we are having Bumble B he will wake up and realize he's 30 freaking years old and needs to grow up and wake up. So anyways... Thanks for all the comments! They meant a lot! :D

Question...: Anyone have any idea where McMama gets these pants for her middle son? I love them and want them.

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Laura Fiegel said...

Oh Katie, I'm really happy to hear that things are improving. Marriage can be difficult and then throwing a baby into the mix, can further complicate things. I truly hope he commits to being a better person for the sake of you and the baby. Keep staying strong :)

stumbull said...

Glad to hear that things are improving. Hopefully he will "wake up" and understand the responsibility he has now. Men can take so long to "grow up" and get out of the frat boy phase. He should be trying to keep you from having any extra stress at this point!

Beautiful Mess said...

Good for you for saying what you felt! I'm sure it was hard to say it, but you did what had to be done to open up his eyes. That takes a lot of courage.

Sending you lots of strength. You and hubby will get through this. It's just a rough time right now.
*HUGS*

Tina said...

I am so happy that things are impproving betweem you and your husband. I hope that he understands that his actions will soon be affecting not only you but your baby as well. I think that's a pretty good wake up call!

Dawn said...

Funny you should ask about Nuggey's pants! I asked MckMama that same thing just a few days ago and here is her reply in part
"they are mini-boden, and in the spring line. We probably got them at a resale shop or ebay - so you might check around." I just love them too!
Also, I hope things continue to go well for you!

KuKd Chick said...

Ugh, sorry you're having hubster troubles, and glad that your baby comment brought him back to reality. Funny how men's minds work. Way to stick to your guns and keep the conversation real!

B MoM said...

glad to hear things are better with hubsters. I hope the communication channels keep flowing so that you guys can avoid a "next time." Somehow, you gotta find the right finesse to get him to talk to you about his habits and how to change them/avoid another fight, without sounding like a nag. Perhaps talk to him about your expectations wants and have him tell you the same for him? Maybe you can come to some middle ground so he wont feel so liited (and thus "forced" to lie to you) while you'll get him to open up to you and avoid spending money and drinking - FTR?

Nina said...

I'm glad things are improving as well. Sometimes they need a kick in the ass to wake them up to what they're doing. Good luck, hon.

Jenn said...

Glad things are getting better!

I have a pair of pants similar to Nuggey's for Emery. I got them as a hand-me-down but they are BabyGap. Super cute! They are still a bit big (12 mths) but I've already had them on him :)

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