Soooo the doctor told me to only BD every 4th day and when I THINK I MIGHT be Oing, BD every 3rd day. Sperm live in your body for 5 days, so every 3rd day will get it. And you want enough to be potent and 3 days gives your man enough time to stock up. HA! Someone telling me to do one thing obviously has just done something to my BRAIN! IDK what it is, but I want it every minute of every day. We have DTD like 7 times in the last 9 days. It's ridiculous!!!! It's like I'm a dang teenager or something. You tell me not to do something, and dang you if I'm going to listen!!!
Honestly, I think it is the lack of stress. She told me to quit the OPTs and is running these tests on me so I will now if I am having a problem or not within the month. I think the weights lifted from my shoulders have just made a huge difference in ME. When I got pregnant the first time, we were just having FUN, kinda tinkering with the idea of trying to get pregnant. This month I don't even know what CD I'm on!!!! I'm not even using a ticker on my BBC board!!!
It's amazing what a little not worrying can do for your love life. And I will say this too, my DH is NOT backing up my doctor. He pretty much just lets me do as I please.... Men....
The End
14 years ago
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Hi Katie! I found your blog on Lost and Found. I have a blog that I have used as a personal journal for a few months but I am realizing that I can use it to connect with others that share my story.
I am in the same boat as you. After getting pregnant very quickly, I had a miscarriage at 8 1/2 weeks about 2 1/2 weeks ago. We are starting to think about moving forward and TTC again. There are some days that I want to TTC NOW and other days that the thought of OPKs, counting my CDs, and timed intercourse is too much to handle. I am glad to hear that a month free from these things has treated you well. And that you are having fun with your DH!
I mentioned that your Dr. is running tests on you. Is this because of your wacky LPs or the miscarriage? Just curious.
The testing is for the wacky LPs :) But I think some of them (thyroid?) can be for both? IDK.... i have my US tommorrow, so I will ask :)
I've never heard of a 3-day spacing. My two OB-GYNs (who have infertility specialties), my perinatologist, and my reproductive endocrinologist all tell me to go every 24-48 hours around ovulation. Just a thought.
Check out the Sperm Meets Egg plan at www.pregnancyloss.info.
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